Most of us don't seem to want to acknowledge just how emotionally fraught the holidays can be for some. If you're estranged from your family, suffered a loss, are more of an introvert who's not fully comfortable with the continuous show of cheer the season demands, or honestly, even just single, Christmas and New Year's can be a constant, painful reminder of how well-adjusted and happy everyone else seems to be.
But the 2006 romantic comedy “The Holiday” not only gets it, it makes it the central premise. Or rather premises, since “The Holiday” gives you two rom-coms for the price of one while mostly doing justice to both. Reviewers didn't seem to agree, the main criticisms being that it was predictable and treacly. There's some truth to that, since there's never really much question of just where its central relationships are going or how they'll end. Then again, predictability is a component of many a film, and “The Holiday” isn't only an enjoyable one about the mess we can make of our love lives, it's a movie about movies as well as a tribute to the entire rom-com genre, fueled by the love writer-director Nancy Meyers clearly has for both. It's too sincere to be subversive though, and I mean that as a compliment.
Meyers was well on her way to establishing herself as a rom-com force to be reckoned with, having made “What Women Want” in 2000, and “Something's Gotta Give” in 2003, and “The Holiday” had another side effect. It solidified what has now become Meyers's trademark, that of plots which occur in chic spaces with impossibly immaculate kitchens. Much like the reviews, such criticisms of her work, one which rarely seems to stick to the men who make similar films, seems to miss the point of “The Holiday,” which actually makes not just the personal and professional differences between protagonists Iris (Kate Winslet) and Amanda (Cameron Diaz) part of the plot, but their economic ones as well.
Both women find themselves lovelorn and lonely for the holidays in perfectly symmetrical ways. Amanda is a workaholic whose relationship has just combusted, but instead of being the receiving end of a commitment-phobic guy, she is the one who is unable to get emotionally invested in any of the men she dates. She is also somewhat stunted, unable to even shed a tear after her boyfriend departs, despite her efforts. In contrast, Iris is still in love with her co-worker and ex Jasper (Rufus Sewell), despite the fact that they parted ways three years ago. Amanda may not be able to cry, but when Iris learns Jasper is engaged, she not only goes home and sobs uncontrollably, she even starts inhaling the gas in her stove, much to her shock. “Low point!” she exclaims.
The two women decide they need a change of scene, and agree online to swap houses for two weeks. Even if Iris is kind of solidly middle class with a quaint cottage in the English countryside, she's still flying to LA in a plane where she occupies a middle seat, while Amanda is ensconced in her own private area where she's free to not only stack up some books, but lie down. While Iris revels in the California sun and the luxury of her spacious, technologically advanced new digs, Amanda is quickly bored by the quiet remove of the cottage and books a flight out for the next day. Until, at least, this walks through her door...